Help, suspicious father in law might be listening in on us

So weird weird situation here, my partner(T), and their father(A) have a very strained relationship. He has been abusive their entire life, usually manipulation, gaslighting, negging, dismissing their feelings or in general trying to control them. This was rough at first but we have tried to handle it as best as we could and then here recently it's gotten weirder and weirder. So T and I have been discussing where this all came from, thinking maybe he was abused or …

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