Why isn't it considered weird to search people online?

(like I can maybe understand if you think the person is like a serial killer but otherwise....)

Saw a post in another sub where OP was asking if it was weird to not give out their full first and last name to a date that they do not know well. OP was saying that they wanted to get to know this person organically.

The comments are full of people calling OP weird and a "red flag". Everyone was saying that …

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