US Post Office is making it nearly impossible to have mail delivered under an alias name to your CMRA (e.g., UPS, local mail box provider). What's your strategy?

I have a couple of mailboxes set up... UPS, and a local option. Neither will accept mail delivered under an alternative name unless that name has a Form 1583 with associated identification documents. Any tips/tricks/secrets you're willing to share to get around this issue?

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