Privacy friendly in-home cameras?

I’m looking for an in-home camera to place in front of my door, however I still want my privacy since I won’t be the only one monitoring it.

Are there any cameras that:
- Can freeze or stop recording (without sending a notification) whenever I want it to, in case I don’t want the other user to know I’m going in and out.
- For the love of God, doesn’t have a two-way speaker and/or allows me to mute the …

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