My friends wont cooperate and it's getting on my nerves

So, I'm trying to migrate from Discord to Matrix based services. I've even found a client that offers a very similar UI ([Cinny](https://cinny.in/)). However, none of my friends (or even family members) want to switch to Matrix no matter what I do. I don't know what to do now, I'm kind of forced to use Discord (no, bridges won't cut it since they have limited DM support, which is where most of my messages get sent anyway) and I have …

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