How do I check malicious links/ suspicious files coming through my email ?

Hi guys, this is such a basic question but such a hassle everytime I find a suspicious looking link coming in my email inbox. I am kinda getting all sorts of random messages and I'm assuming that my account is leaked on i don't know where, and is there site like the Virus Total where I can run suspicious files and links to see if what i'm getting are really fishy ones , I 'd like to confirm my suspicion …

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