American abroad. I got married. I'm going back to America soon. I have a stalker. How do I protect myself and my wife from my stalker?

I'm already on top of keeping my social media private. But to keep myself out of additional trouble, I go a step further to make my situation appear as though I'm in a completely different country.

However, there are background check websites out there that people can abuse to find actual information about me.

Luckily, I'm setting up the following:
A family member will be assisting me with a bank loan. This family member will be the primary applicant for …

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