Is it a fairy tale to want to get into Tech, but also have a good work life balance?

DevOps, Cyber Security, Software Engineering/Coding, Data Analyst are all careers Im debating going down. While I would have a lot of passion for critical thinking and applying that to the related skills, Is it fool hardy to think I can break into this sector without being an eat/sleep/coder?

Don't read this as not being passionate about this area-one just gets a sense of a lot of extreme hustle culture at the expense of time with friends/family/good sleep/other hobbies.

Can I …

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